When my mother-in-law gave me
Hooked!, by Stephanie Kaza, for my birthday, I thought that I might be in for some dreadfully guilt-laden reading. A collection of 17 essays on Buddhist perspectives on greed, desire and the urge to consume,
Hooked! was at first glance intriguing yet potentially upsetting. I wasn’t sure if I was ready to face up to my own materialistic views.
I have always considered myself a minimalist. For many of my college years, I had only the bare minimum I needed to get by, with a few perks (a computer always being one of those perks). But the real reason that I was a minimalist, was that I spent so much time moving from place to place, that I didn’t want to have to haul all my stuff around, so I kept my possessions light (except for the heavy 286 I lugged around everywhere.)
Now, I live in a house that is crammed full of stuff. Much of that stuff is mine, but it’s also a lot of stuff for the kids. Mostly it’s stuff that we don’t use very often. I get a grand satisfaction in having garage sales and giving away bags of stuff, yet the space that giving stuff away makes is soon filled with more things. I struggle with this issue a lot, because although I don’t feel that I need very much, I actually do have more stuff than I think, and that makes me uncomfortable.
So, reading
Hooked! was scary for me. Fortunately, Buddhist views are generally less extreme than mainstream environmentalism and anti-consumerism. Most of the essays in
Hooked! have a moderate viewpoint, and focus more on being aware, than being guilty. I found the first section of essays to be the most enlightening (pun intended), as it spoke of what makes humans, and in particular Americans, have an incessant desire to have more stuff. And not only more objects, but more money, more technology, more knowledge and generally amassing as much as we can of whatever we can. The first step to making changes in our lives, and in our world is to see things clearly, and understand the problem.
The second section I found useful as well. This section focused on practical tools we can use, from a Buddhist perspective of the middle way, to find a happy medium between what we want and what we truly need to survive. It also talks about making choices based on things other than status and whether something is a good deal, but rather from the perspective of who had to be hurt, who had to work hard and what had to die in order for me to have this thing. Kind of harsh because it’s so “in-your-face”. But one the major things it points out, is that we are so far removed from the process of creating the things that we have, that we don’t have any connection to the people who did the work to make the things that we have in our possession.
The last section is about giving. From the Buddhist point of view, we get more the more we give. And by giving, we can decrease our desire for stuff. Giving away our excess stuff, time and money to people who have less than they need, or even just to people that we love (and in Buddhism, that’s everyone, in theory), gives us the opportunity to appreciate what we have more, and to see that our stuff does not define who we are. This section also talks about the value of money, and how we see money in our Western society.
As much as some of the articles hurt to read (because they were honest, not sensational), I benefited greatly from having hashed it all out in my head. I think that anyone, Buddhist or not, would gain from reading many of these essays, and thinking about how we got to where we are commercially, and how our American push for a stronger market and more consumerism effects the world, including the one that we live in day to day.
Although H
ooked! is chock-full of Buddhist quotes and references, the concepts are universal. And, if one has any question as to what Buddhism is all about, and wants to know more, this is a good introduction to it, by exploring something that we can all relate to from a (mostly) middle way Zen perspective.